ライルと日常生活先輩

自己の間違いを無視する

21 Jun 2010 Leave a Comment

by ライル 先輩 in Uncategorized Tags: advice, lyle, lyle geronimo, personal, school, teenager

It has been quite long since the last time i wrote something personal on my Blog, it just so happened that a lot has happened t me like 2 months ago, there goes the things on how did i get to go to Batangas to help out Mom manage the Center there, and how i got a Part-time Job at CSVAS, then turned it down in the end, and several things occurred.

The reason why i just wrote today, is because i have received this email from someone who was just asking for help on something about his own self, maybe i can say that he’s quite lost.

With permission from the dear reader to show his own letter here, i will have the right to protect that person, whoever he is.

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Dear Lyle,

Hi! I have been a fan of your blog since i first laid eyes on it. The very first time i have checked on your blog, is you were saying something about friends. I just wrote an email to you to ask something of you, i have this friend i have been seeing at school. I can say that we’re pretty close, i don’t know about him, but i feel like there is a wall between us that is keeping me away from him. When i see him at school coming i just greeted him first, i even treated him from food to online game points. My parents already knew him well… and they liked him.

recently, i have been mad at him over something he put in some community site, that he tagged me along with that. I was so furious that i almost asked him directly what did i do wrong to him to deserve that treatment? I have felt humiliation, and anger towards that post, so i posted insults that hits him, on my status messages and even on other community sites.

This morning, i feel like he’s been more colder than usual, hard to talk with, he’s been more cheerful to our classmates than me. Who’s been with him for quite long, I am trying to put everything behind us. And i want to keep it that way.

He’s quite older than me, actually, he almost twice my age. And i even call him by his first name.

Hope that you can help me out on this, you’re the most reliable one so far.

Sincerely,
Azuma K.
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Dear Azuma K.

Frankly, i think there must be something wrong with you, why not try to find it out for yourself!? have you try to ask yourself what is wrong with you!? i’m already 29 and going on my 30′s a few days from now, calling someone’s who’s older than you are by his/her first name gives him/her a feeling of disrespect. You must know that.

If you feel like he’s been ignoring you, like i said try to do a self reality check, to check on your attitudes towards people. Maybe he sees something wrong with you, and the sole reason why he’s more colder than before is because he’s been trying to teach you a lesson. Realizing your faults do not degrade your well being.

And also, don’t ask him of those things that you gave him, it’s your choice to give him those things, you’re not to get them back from him.

if he REALLY did that on purpose, he might have been a reason, maybe you just did not see the good side of that cause. try to lighten up your head a little, will you!?